Bonding and Bondage!

Women have mixed desires and one area where these desires are very grey and confused is bondage. I enjoy being free and alive, I enjoy being in control and I enjoy being able to move the chess pieces of life.

Nonetheless, there are times when I feel the opposite. I want to be directed, organised, directed, managed, looked after and sometimes to be dominated.

It is sometimes extremely erotic to be with someone you trust and to allow them access to any part of your body that they desire. To do with you what they want to and to actually beg them to do it. To let them call you names that you would never usually accept and to orgasm when they call you them as they fuck you.

To lie naked or nearly naked on a bed and unable to move. And hearing noises. You know that these noises are made by a man who is going to dominate and use you. It is extremely exciting!

Women are, therefore, a mixture of emotions. Treat her well and she will definitely treat you well too and to allow things you never could have imagined..

If I am tied up when you ring, keep trying!!!!

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Dancing again!

I have mentioned in previous blogs that I love to dance and in particular South American dance. I like the music and I like the very sexual and sensual movements the dancers make. I am not an expert but when I dance I feel alive and free.

 Classes started up again last week and although the venue does not give the right atmosphere, once the music starts we are in Rio and Buenos Aries, in Caracas and Laz Paz.

There is something special when a male dancer takes control of your body. He holds you in a special way and turns you in a movement that he dictates but he does not have real control over. It is the woman who gets the glances, the woman that gets the looks and it is the woman that perspires with excitement and the thrill of dancing with a man whilst dancing with the groins of the male watchers.

I cannot explain it but if I miss a class I feel depressed and it is as if something is not correct. Dancing provides the balance in my life. It is an outlet, it is exercise and it is mentally demanding.

I dance salsa on Sunday and then the dance of the bedroom on my other days. They both thrill but in very different ways!

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Party Time!!!!

I may have mentioned in a previous blog that I used to organise parties when I lived in England. I had a big place by the sea and it was a great venue for a gathering of like minded people. Getting people intent on sex is not easy though. You need a good mix of males and females. I used to get couples and then about 5-10 single men to make it exciting. Age did not matter too much but everyone needed to be energetic!

Well, most people who have never been to a sex party imagine that it is a world of debauchery with unmentionable things going on.

 In my opinion this is not the case and I do have experience of a number of different parties. In the main the people attending are quite normal people with normal jobs and normal routines and now and again they like to let their hair down and go to a party where sex is on the menu.

 People when they go to ordinary parties often imagine sex taking place but are usually disappointed. Sex parties as the name suggests tells you that sex will take place. You don't know the quantity or quality but you know there will be action. So everyone can relax and know that it is going to happen.

When people arrive there is a nervousness and excitement that you don't get at other kinds of parties.

People exchange small talk and discuss things nothing to do with sex. This is a good time to serve food and drink so people can do something and chat as well.

Parties need a very sociable, outgoing organiser. And I must admit that I am very good at this. I am unshockable and I like to laugh and have fun. I also like to organise things and somebody needs to get things going or else everyone will just stand around talking about the weather!

One thing I used to do was to get all the females in one room and all the males in the other. Each group then had to decide on one person who was to go next door. This person had to accept what the others wanted to do with them. They could not refuse, well within limits they had always to say 'yes'.

I had no problem being in a room with men but it always seemed best to send someone else. We sent a married woman whose husband was in the room next door. When she entered the room they suddenly blindfolded her and put her on her knees. Then every male put their cock in her mouth and she had to decide which cock was her husband's. She was only allowed to use her mouth and hands were not allowed. Amazingly she got it right which seemed to imply that she spent a lot of time in that region!

The games went on for a short time and both the males and females became comfortable in each others company. Once everyone was relaxed the action usually started.

However, amazingly at around 2 am most people were in the kitchen eating snacks and having a drink and back to having everyday conversation. The only difference between this and any other party was that everyone was naked!

I am happy to have parties in Rome. They would not be big affairs but would require couples and singles. Let me know if anyone wants to be involved. If there is any interest I may start up a facebook account where we could all discuss it!

This is me at one of my parties. The organiser has to have fun too!!!!

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Sometimes it is better to cover it up! Cunts, Fannies (UK) and vaginas!

Sometimes when I look at my vagina I am not totally impressed. I much prefer my breasts and other areas. However, it is not just my cunt that fails to excite it is other women's too.

Vaginas are not beautiful, they are flaps of skin that can mould into unusual and often ugly shapes. They are basically sexual caverns with bits wobbling on the exterior. But I may be wrong.

There may be people who find them exceedingly picturesque and beautiful. But I am not one of these!

This is not because I am a woman. I enjoy looking at breasts, women's bodies, looking into women's eyes and even tasting their lips. But cunts do nothing for me.

 The penis is far more splendid and inviting. It has a multitude of shapes and sizes and is the chamelion of the human body. It is a throbbing muscle that indicates immediately its desires and needs. The vagina needs to be tasted and touched to reveal what is happening inside. You have to dig to find the truth whereas the penis is always in your face and wanting attention.

So if I had a choice of looking at a cock and a cunt it would always be the cock. However, I do like to see a cock gliding effortlessly inside a cunt. Now that is when a cunt looks its best!!!!

If you want to try gliding get in touch.

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Cleavage!

I am a bit of an exhibitionist and I do like men to look at me. Italian men are great lookers, they never miss a chance to ogle a woman and they love to see a cleavage.

I love it when I have a deep cleavage and you can get a good look at my breasts and I am stood having a serious talk with a man. The serious talk does not take long as he usually loses his thread and starts to talk a lot of rubbish.

The breasts have made his brain disengage from rational thought to animal thinking. It is amusing to see how his eyes move up and down. From cleavage to face but trying his best not to do it!

There has been research into when and why women decide to show more cleavage. An Austrian researcher found that the cleavage became more revealing when the woman was ovulating.

Nature takes over and when the egg is ready the woman naturally seeks out men to fertilise the egg. And hence the deeper cleavage and more breast. It is an interesting theory and I do notice that when I am ovulating I become more frisky.

So if you want to see my cleavage, have a hold of my breasts and play with them, then get in touch.

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6 and 9......... 69!!!!!

Readers of this blog may have an image of me that is one of having a life of sex. Day and night sex, Monday to Sunday sex.Sex as an entree and sex as a dessert etc. I do have sex but maybe not as much as you may think I do.

 And  your imagination of what I get up to is only fair.You know I am an escort, you know I write an explicitly sexual blog so I would have the same opinion if I was simply a reader. I do, however, have another life. One quite different to that displayed on this blog. I think you may be surprised!

Anyway, and promise not to laugh, last Sunday I was with a friend walking around a market in Ostia. The weather was atrocious and it rained a lot. Most of the afternoon we escaped the showers. Well, as we were escaping a drenching we happened to see a bingo hall that seemed very popular.

Bingo for me has always been something you did when you retired. But this place had young people entering so my friend and I decided to take a peek. The bingo hall was huge with seating for smokers and another area for non smokers. Attendants were rushing around collecting money and handing out bingo cards. My friend and I decided to sit with a group of quite elderly men and women who were attentive to the game they were playing.

Around the room were small and large screens where balls with numbers on appeared. I was very impressed with the atmosphere and to be honest I was a little excited. I have fond memories of bingo as I had many wonderful times playing it during festive times with my family. I did not need to be pushed into purchasing my first cards and the elderly man next to me regularly gave instructions as to how best to play the game.

I was totally amazed as to how much people spend on bingo.. Most people were spending 3-5 euros every game and games were taking place every 5 minutes. So do the maths, if you were not winning you were losing 36-60 euros every hour. And most of the players were pensioners and spent most of the afternoon playing!!!!

Well, I was losing about 20 euros when my card started to look very lucky and amazingly my last number arrived before anyone else could cry 'bingo'. Being Neoplolitan and extremely excitable I made a loud noise that did not sound anything like 'bingo'. The next minute I got a few disgruntled looks from my neighbours who did not appreciate that the newly arrived had just won a pot of money.

I decided to take my money and run, which is always the best policy when you win gambling. I had fun, I had money and I had been in a bingo hall!

On the way home, however, I got to thinking how sex and bingo could be combined. And the idea was Karma Sutra Bingo. The Karma Sutra has 64 sexual positions. I know because I have tried them all! Any the Karma Sutra bingo card has only 4 numbers and these numbers are between 1-64. Now you can only play as a couple and each couple has one card.

The game is simple, when your number is called you cross off that number and then have to perform that position in front of everyone for 4 minutes.

The game then re-starts and continues until one couple has crossed off all their numbers. The winning couple can get the following depending on the audience.

1. A great big smile!

2. Money collected from the other couples

3. The losing men have to spoil the winning female by each performing one position of the Karma Sutra with her!

I do like number 3!!!!

So if anyone wants to play bingo with me get in touch.

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Erotic Photographs!

I do enjoy looking at erotic art. In particular I love black and white photographs. I imagine myself posing and I imagine the delights that await the women in the photograph. The photograph hints at what will happen next and the fun that is to be had.

Here are a few of my favourites.

The idea of being tied up and ordered to open my crack is very erotic and exciting. It is about being controlled and obeying!

Here the ripped top indicates frantic sex. Being with someone who wants to get me naked quickly. They want to fuck me there and then! No foreplay just aggressive sex.

Here this is about me being in control, me deciding what to do next. Me telling you what you can do and what you cannot do.

The photograph below is just beautiful. The female body needs to be seen and worshipped. The cunt needs to be seen and desired.

There is a bit of an exhibitionist in me. I like the idea of being naughty in public places. Of being watched and desired.

And finally I love the idea of being the centre of attention. To be available for all and to be extremely wanton.

All in all I am very erotic and I love to have  physical contact. If you want to make contact please do!

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