What pornography do I watch?

A friend wrote to me recently asking me to write about what porn I enjoyed watching. Now I need to be truthful here! And I think it is the same for most women. We don't really like pornography as such. It is fun to be in it but watching it isn't as exciting!

Most days I have pics and videos sent to me of cocks. Big cocks, small cocks, flaccid cocks and really hard cocks. But they don't really excite me. I know men will watch me play with my cunt for hours but women are not programmed in the same way.

We need a story, we need something less explicit, we need maybe some romance or drama. Men tend to want to get to the action whilst women like to simmer first. It is just like when making love!

I am very happy and really enjoy watching someone get fucked in the shower, however, I will want to know what they did before they had  the shower and what they did after the shower.It would also be interesting to know what soap they used and who fetched the towels.

And nature tells us why. Men are always graphic and into action because they are programmed to do this. If they don't get in and out another animal would have been in and done it.Women on the other hand can be more casual in their approach to sex. They know that there is a good chance of another fuck if this one does not work out. We can be choosy and we can take our time.

Nonetheless, if I am in good company and a pornographic film is on I enjoy watching it for the social aspect. You can make comments about the man's appendage, about the woman's breasts and about how long the fuck takes. It is fun but I would never watch a pornographic film on my own and at the same time tickle my clitoris. So sorry to all the men who thought I spent hours glued to a screen watching men masturbate.

However, although I do not like watching fucking I do love being fucked. So if you do want to play get in touch. You can also film it but don't expect me to watch afterwards. I hate watching myself on film!!!

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The Autumn Dance!!!!!

Last night I had a great session at my salsa class. I was feeling a bit down, for reasons I am not sure about and the chance to dance lifted me and I returned home a lot more positive to when I had left.

Dance does this. It is a much better medicine than any pills you can take.

And I think if you look into the skies around Rome at the moment you will also see dancing.

And I am sure these creatures dance for the same reason I do. One of the great Autumn sights around Rome are the starlings performing in the sky. It is spectacular, memorising and strange.

There must be many theories about why they do their synchronised flying creating wonderful patterns but I am sure my one is correct. I believe that they are dancing for life. Autumn is with us and winter beckons. Winter is usually the time many birds leave or die. Spring will be missing many of the birds that dance happily in the November sky line. For me it is a celebration of life, a goodbye to old friends and just one great opportunity to express themselves.

I like the idea of celebrating and saying goodbye to  summer. I love summer, I had a wonderful summer and I long for the next summer.

However, I know in the mean time we have to dance and express ourselves, to share moments and to celebrate life. Now, I know one very good way to do this and I am happy to share this. Horizontal dances are wonderful too!!!!

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Barbie should have black hair!!!!

I am always amazed that many people associate blonde hair with beauty. Many Italians dye their hair blonde because they are taken in with this belief. And it is wrong!

Walk along any Italian street and you will see gorgeous woman with dark hair. You can do the same in Brazil, Spain etc. So why is blonde hair desired so much? My belief is Barbie!

Barbie has brain washed us all!

Here is the history of Barbie for those who did not know.

Ruth Handler watched her daughter Barbara play with paper dolls, and noticed that she often enjoyed giving them adult roles. At the time, most children's toy dolls were representations of infants. Realizing that there could be a gap in the market, Handler suggested the idea of an adult-bodied doll to her husband Elliot, a co-founder of the Mattel toy company. He was unenthusiastic about the idea, as were Mattel's directors.

During a trip to Europe in 1956 with her children Barbara and Kenneth, Ruth Handler came across a German toy doll called Bild Lilli.^[1] The adult-figured doll was exactly what Handler had in mind, so she purchased three of them. She gave one to her daughter and took the others back to Mattel. The Lilli doll was based on a popular character appearing in a comic strip drawn by Reinhard Beuthin for the newspaper Die Bild-Zeitung. Lilli was a blonde bombshell, a working girl who knew what she wanted and was not above using men to get it. The Lilli doll was first sold in Germany in 1955, and although it was initially sold to adults, it became popular with children who enjoyed dressing her up in outfits that were available separately.

Barbie for me is not a good toy for Italian children on two fronts. One it reinforces the idea that blonde is beautiful and secondly and this can be said for all children it is not helpul for their sexual education.

(The above is a difficult joke to undestand for many second language learners. I am happy to explain if anyone wants to know the meaning. It's all to do with the term 'comes with'!

Barbie and Ken do not have genitals and Barbie is flat chested.

If the original idea was to have adult figures that you can dress up and live out life experiences like shopping, going to the gymn, having a spa and driving the pink car around the local neighbourhood then give them the equipment to make baby Barbies.

Don't leave Ken cock less!!!!

Because of the fanasy that Barbie has given the world, the name Barbie appears in a lot of pornographic material and you can buy Barbie merchandise at sex shops. I don't!!!!

I have nothing against blonde haired women but I do think that women with other coloured hair are as beautiful and in many cases more beautiful!!!!

So if you want to visit an non Barbie then get in touch. You can be my Ken as long as you have genitals!!!!

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Do escorts care about their visitors????

The answer is 'yes' of course they do. Visitors can go on forums and feedback sites and rip an escort apart if she was not considerate, professional and attentive. It is in her own interest to be caring.

However, this is not the whole story. I have a number of friends who visit me on a regular basis. I learn about their families, their work or lack of it, their worries and their doubts.

It is a relationship more than just sex. I am still an escort but the relationship is more involved. This involvement is not a romantic one but one you would have with a good friend.

I have one friend who visits me regularly. He is young, handsome and has a good job. The only thing he longs for is a serious relationship.

And I talk to him about this and would love him to find someone he cares for and loves. He deserves it! Now this would mean he would no longer visit me but I am happy with this. Happy in the knowledge that he has found what he wanted.

I am happy when  a visitor estranged from his wife and using me as a shoulder to cry on, returns to his wife and does not frequent my bed anymore. I am also happy when a divorced man who is very lonely and visits me to lie next to someone suddenly finds a new relationship and does not require our cuddles anymore.

Escorts do care and I care a lot. Sometimes it is difficult as I have numerous very silly calls a day. Callers who promise things or call me things or tell lies. Callers who want me to go places and they are not there. Callers from outside Italy stating they are in Italy and want me now! I try to treat everyone equal but it is sometimes difficult and if you find me a little cold on the phone sometimes it may be that I have had a prankster ringing previously.

Escorts and visitors share special moments. They share secret moments and even secrets. It is hard to believe that given this that there is no caring and affection.

Escorts do care!

And if you would like me to care for you then get in touch.

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Cumming Together!!!!

Many of my visitors like the idea that we orgasm together. Now I have nothing against this but it has to be a natural event and not a contrived one. I don't like the idea of having to orgasm at the right moment. I just enjoy an orgasm.

If both of us have reached the right moment then it is wonderful. But it can also be wonderful when we orgasm at different times.

I do love watching a man's face when he orgasms. I like to hear the noises he makes and I like the feel of his body as he undergoes his orgasm.

 If i was having an orgasm I would miss this moment. The moment his cock pulses and how the muscles of his cock shudder and how his balls empty. These are great moments. And it must be the same for him when I orgasm. So cumming together is great but it is not everything.

If you would like to watch me orgasm then get in touch!

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Dressing Up!

A friend has written to me asking whether there is a demand for dressing up in a special way. In particular he wanted to know if I was ever asked to wear a uniform or clothes connected with a certain profession.

Now, I would love to stoke his fantasy but I am very rarely asked to wear a uniform. Now and again I am asked to dress like a secretary and to wear special tights or stockings but that is about it.

I know from my visits to sex shops and what I have seen on the internet that there are photos of sexy women in nurses outfits, sexy women as doctors carrying out investigations.

 I have seen women dressed in police uniforms and even in military uniforms but I have never been asked to don such clothing.

In sex films and sex parties in the UK you would often find the sexy nun. Now and again I have even seen photos of the erotic teacher giving extra tuition but I am afraid I do not have any stories myself of role playing in such a way.

I did once have a plumber, I am not sure if this was his real job, who had an interesting fantasy. He wanted to mend my water pipes whilst I washed up. He liked the idea of looking up my skirt whilst I did it. It was fun!

And I do have a very good friend who thinks that I am Cleopatra and loves to be my slave. He likes to fan me and to treat me like royalty. Now this is great fun!!!!!!

But in the main when doing in calls the demand is to wear sexy clothes and sexy lingerie and not a lot more.

If anyone does have a particular fantasy relating to a particular profession then I am happy to explore it!!!!

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