A Room With a View

A Room with A View

It was not a beautiful room
Functional, clean and acceptable
There was a bathroom, a big bathroom
Bidet, shower and good, hot water

The bed was large, not king-size
But big enough for 2
And sometimes three
It was often used

There was a room before the bedroom
It was usually bare, like me
Except for a table and 2 chairs
It led to the bedroom

There was a balcony, seldom used
That looked out onto a big garden
It was a pretty view
But nobody really wanted to look

By the side of the bed
Was a music centre
It played to drown out my noises
I am often loud when fucked

The music was often English
And frequently the same
It was background music
And only a few visitors were interested

And by the bed, a bedside cabinet
Where I kept my condoms and toys
And sometimes massage oil
If it was needed

It seldom was as my visitor
Wanted to be in
With his tongue, cock and finger
And I was happy to oblige

There was a chair
Where playmates heaped their clothes
Some folded them neatly
Others too much in a rush to bother

From the bed I could look in the bathroom
It was green and spacious
Some action took place here
But more often than not it was just for washing

It was a quiet, secluded room
Peaceful and ordinary
Looking at it now
You would never believe the things
That took place inside

But there are some of us who do!!!! ;-)

I am not a SEX therapist, but........

I have a wonderful friend who has visited me nearly every week for over 12 months. He is young, handsome, has a good job and is great company. So you are all asking yourself, why does he visit me?

Well after sex the other day he told me that he thought I was a great sex therapist. I was confused at first but then he told me that he had visited such a person for some time, paid 100 euros a hour and made no progress. He pays 50 euros more with me and has seen an improvement and has a great time!

So what is the problem.? Well, firstly it is not uncommon and secondly it seems to be something more common in Italian males. And it shouldn't be!


Many men have sex like they drive cars. Sex should not be reckless, fast and competitive!

Men come to see me for many reasons. One of the reasons is that they are embarrassed about their sexual prowess, their cock size, their desires and their physique. My friend's problem was that his cock is not large and he cannot maintain an erection.

When a man cannot maintain an erection outside infunences are often blamed. Sometimes I get blamed, sometimes the condom gets blamed and there is always the weather. The weather is either too hot or too cold.

The problem for me stems from putting too much pressure on themselves to be wonderful. They have to be the stallion, they have to make me squirm and wriggle with desire, they have to be the best. And good sex is never ever like this.

Good sex happens when people are relaxed and comfortable with each other. Good sex does not happen every time but you can still have fun. Being naked, touching, talking about things you don't normally talk about to another human being. Sex should be fun and non-competitive. It is about sharing and not being the best.

Cock size is important, I will not lie, however, the adage that 'it's not the size, it's how you use it that matters' is equally true. The way men move their cock and their hip movement greatly increases the pleasure for a woman. It is varying the pace and the angle the cock is inserted that increases the pleasure. So you don't have to be large to hit the right buttons.

Going flaccid, being unable to maintain an erection is a problem. I hate the feel of a soft cock inside me. Nonetheless, it happens and it should not be seen as the end of the world. Start slowly. Play games together and when it is erect pop it in for a few seconds and then play again. It is a mental thing. If everyone is relaxed and happy the situation will be stress free. Remember, women want to have fun and this can happen in many ways it does not have to be having a hard cock thrusting in and out. In fact the latter without any fun or emotion can be equally frustrating!

Premature ejaculation. Again this is very common. Men do get very excited about visiting an escort. And as soon as their cock gets near my cunt it just explodes. Again this causes embarrassment. But it happens! Obviously you have to take things slowly and to not touch the genital areas at first.

I could go on. The important point to make is that if you do have a problem you are not unique in this. Sex is not a competitive sport it is a fun sport. It should be stress-free, fun and enjoyable to all who are involved.

If you want some stress-free, fun and enjoyable sex, get in touch.

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

0039 3281769818