ESCORT

I am generally advertised as an 'escort'. This is quite a modern term for the things I do. The definition of escort is below

Definition of ESCORT

1

a (1) : a person or group of persons accompanying another to give protection or as a courtesy (2) : the man who goes on a date with a womanb : a protective screen of warships or fighter planes or a single ship or plane used to fend off enemy attack from one or more vulnerable craft

2

: accompaniment by a person or an armed protector (as a ship)

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Examples of ESCORT

1. Visitors are not allowed to enter the building without an escort.
2. The bombers were protected by a fighter escort.
3. Everyone was surprised when she arrived at the party without an escort.

Origin of ESCORT

Middle French escorte, from Italian scorta, from scorgere to guide, from Vulgar Latin *excorrigere, from Latin ex- +corrigere to make straight, correct — more at correct

First Known Use: 1579

Now, I cannot see anything familiar in the above. I suppose there is protection and courtesy. I protect men from too much stress and allow them to be men. I am also courteous, A courteous person is 

civil, polite, genteel, gracious, mannerly, well-bred

I am all of these but to be an escort you sometimes have to be a whole lot more.

 I am a courtesan!

It is interesting that men were generally seen as the escort as they are always seen as the protector.

But I can do this. I promise to protect all my visitors from

• Boredom
• Stress
• Dreamless sleep
• Lack of fantasy
• Routine

You can be 'the bomber' and I will be a fighter escort. You can let go of all your ammunition and return home safe and happy.

I will be your Ford Escort. One of the greatest rally cars. 

I will be great off road. I like rough terrain and can handle all conditions. 

You can bounce around in me all you want. 

Come and have a test drive.

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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Kink,Fetish and Perversion!

This is an interesting topic for me as because I am an escort I often share special thoughts and desires of people that visit me.

 As sex is not an open subject in many conversations we really have no idea what is commonly liked and disliked. 

Some of the more drastic perversions are often reported in the public media and we can gain some idea of what most people think as a result of the reaction.

Nonetheless, it is a very grey area and one that I continue to be confused about..Is visiting an escort or being an escort a kink or a fetish? Is it a perversion?

I read on a blog the following.

fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body, so i think that guy has an underwear fetish. perversion is the action of perverting something (tuning it to a wrong use)

The last part interests me as accoding to many religious organisations sex is to do with procreation. So is sex for fun a perversion. So we are all perverts then!!!

On the subject of 'fetish and 'kink' another writer has informed us that,

there is a huge difference between an actual "fetish" and a "kink" according to the psychological community...a fetish is something that a person absolutely NEEDS in order to become sexually turned on. what we call a kink, is just a little sexual quirk about a person, something they really enjoy, something that turns them on in a special way, something extra, icing on the cake...but can get turned on sexually with or without these things...so i guess i really have no real "fetishes", cause apparently, a TRUE fetishist is absolutely fixated on the object or act which turns them on...so a true fetish is more like an obsession than a turn-on. interesting. so i have tons of kinks, but no true fetishes...hmmm.

Here are some images Google places under 'fetish'.

So I do meet many people with a fetish and also many, many with a kink. I have men who cannot get erections if I do not wear a certain pair of tights or stockings. Others need me to do things to them before they can get hard. This they demand every visit. This I would term a 'fetish'. It is where you are locked into a thing or act and find sex impossible without this.

These are images Google gives when you search 'kink'.

A kink as a sexual quirk is something we all have I think. I enjoy food, for example, but I enjoy it more if it is served and delivered in a certain way. I can eat the food without this but get more enjoyment if it follows a certain preferred manner. So it is with sex. I enjoy penetration any way but I much prefer the man on top fucking me hard. I also like his fingers to explore my anus when this is happening. I always orgasm when this happens but not always in other positions.

But as I have said before, sex is a very grey area with little understanding of what generally happens when people get it together. Some people's kink is another person's fetish. And there are some people who would call all of it perverted.

The difference for me between 'kink', 'fetish' and perversion is that the first two involves all parties to be in agreement and to be having equal enjoyment. I am happy to 'pee' over you as long as you enjoy being 'peed' over.

A perversion on the otherhand is where you gain sexual gratification from doing something where the other involved parties are not in agreement, not mentally able to understand the act or where the law has made it illegal. The latter can be open to discussion as we mentioned in the last blog on anal sex.

Here is Googles take on perversion. I am not sure I totally agree but as I said sex is a very misunderstood subject and open to debate.

So visiting an escort can be normal, it can be a 'kink', it can also be a 'fetish'. It can also be a perversion if the escort is being forced to do it.

I do not like perverts, but I do love people with a 'kink, people with a 'fetish' and I am also happy to have NORMAL sex too!!!!!

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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Anal Sex! Let's get to the bottom of it!

I have just read this below and although I find it familiar it is maybe a little distorted.


'As far as i'm aware, in the UK in the 1800's anal sex between a man and a woman was made illegal because prostitutes used to use it instead of vaginal to avoid becoming pregnant and the governmant wanted to stop prostitution so they made hetrosexual anal sex illegal. Although this law never covered sex between two men for obvious reasons. It was changed in the 90's however and is now legal in the UK to any people over 16.'

I cannot imagine a person paying for sex being forced to commit an act they did not want to do. I think prostitutes offer anal sex as they know men want it. It is a very common request.

Amazingly anal sex is still illegal in some countries. But how can you police this law?  Italy on the otherhand saw sense many years ago and


'In Italy, same-sex intercourse between consenting adults, as well as anal sex between heterosexual partners above the legal age of consent has not been a crime since 1870'

Maybe this is just because Italian men do enjoy anal! And the men who make the laws are generally male!.

For me anal sex is fun. I enjoy it and can orgasm during it. However, I may sometimes be a bit reluctant if you a very large. I remember a very painful experience with a very well endowed West Indian a number of years ago. You could hear my screams in the next street!

If the man is gentle and the anus well lubricated and time is taken to make penetration comfortable, then anal sex is great. If there are any men and women out there that have not tried it well have a go. The best thing about it is you walk around for the rest of the day with very fond memories as your sore bottom keeps reminding you of what you have done.

Many men visiting me love licking my bum. This is also very enjoyable.

This is called 'rimming' in the English speaking world. I love to push backwards onto the tongue so I can feel it more.

So be sure to remember that if you ever visit me anal play is ok. I wont stop you but probably quickly turn on to my front so you can get started!

And if there are any men and women out there that have never tried anal sex then give it a go. It is fun and I should know!

dariax@hotmail.co.uk


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In Praise Of The Condom!

The poor condom gets a lot of blame for many things so I thought I would redress this here. The condom justly deserves some positive press.

 It is one reason I am fit and healthy, still able to have an active sex life and can write a post about it.

Nonetheless, it is often derided,many men visiting me have said the following


-The reason I cannot get a hard on is the condom
-The reason I cannot keep a hard on is the condom
-The reason I came early was the condom
-The reason I cannot come is the condom

Condoms come in different sizes, different shapes, different colours, different material and different taste. About 12 billion are sold in one year.

Amazingly, although there are many theories about where the word 'condom' comes from the origins of the word are still unclear. As is the history of its use, but many feel that they have been in use since Egyptian times and often were worn to prevent disease and not stop babies.

Now when it comes to buying a condom to fit must be a problem for most men. It must be difficult asking for a small size. It's a bit like a woman and her dress size but the opposite way. Here is a link to an article indicating that it could even be a countrywide rather than an individual one.


http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/6161691.stm

Obviously men like the idea of being studs and bulls and prefer to be asking for the giant sized condom. Here is a letter I found.

Dear Alice,

In my shopping and looking for condoms, I NEVER come across a formal size chart. I have been told that I was "endowed" and that I need to look toward larger sized models, but All I ever see is "snug fit," "large," and "extra large," etc. How big is big? It would be most helpful if I knew what I was buying before I actually bought it. Do you know of the sizes of some popular condoms, or of a size chart resource.

Thanks,
Endowed

Dear Endowed,

Well isn't that a lovely little (er, big) quandary to have! There does seem to be a lack of information about the sizes of condoms, but don't fear, you too can find a condom that fits. And a good fit can't be under-estimated: a poorly-fitting condom can undermine its effectiveness in preventing STIs and pregnancy, as well as interfere with the pleasure and sensations for both partners during sex.

First, penis size. The most common penis length falls somewhere around six inches when erect; anywhere from five to seven inches when erect is considered typical. Condoms are meant to have a little extra space at the tip to allow room for ejaculate. Research findings regarding condom size, penis size, and breakage and slippage rates have been mixed. While it is certain that condoms can strech to many times their normal size (just try having a condom water balloon fight and you'll end up carrying balloons as big as watermelons), some studies have found that men with larger penises experience condom breakage more frequently than men with typical- or smaller-sized penises (others studies show that breakage rates are the same regardless of penis size). In addition, if a condom is too short, some STIs could be transmitted between the exposed part of the penis and the partner.

Penis girth also affects how a condom fits. The average penis girth (circumference) is 4.5 to 5 inches. If your girth is above average, a standard sized condom might feel uncomfortably tight and the larger sized condoms could be appropriate for you. For readers whose penis length or girth is less than average, it's important to note that standard condoms could simply fall off during sex. Snug fit condoms, which are a bit, well, snugger, are a good option for these fellows.

Condom manufacturers may have once catered only to "average" size men; however, these days condoms come in many shapes and sizes. Here is a chart that gives some common measurements for different size condoms:

	Snug	Standard	Larger
Length of condom (inches)	7 to 7.8	7.25 to 7.8	7.25 to 8.1
Diameter of condom (inches)	1.75	1.75 to 2	2 to 2.25

As you can see, a condom that is called "large" may in fact have the same dimensions as another brand's standard-fit. Different condom manufactures use slightly different measurements and have a number of shapes available, so you may want to try a few condoms on for size to which is most comfortable. Custom-made condoms do exist and are available on the internet, by mail, or at a sexuality specialty shop. Check out this Condom Wizard to learn about condom shapes, sizes, textures and more.  

To find out "how big is big" or where you fall along the penis size continuum, you can measure your erect penis to know for sure. Or for even more fun, have a partner do it! Measure your length from the tip of the head along the upper side of the shaft to the point where the penis joins the body. For girth, measure the penis circumference at the widest point using a tape measure or a piece of string. As you probably are aware, condoms are the best way to prevent against STIs as well as a reliable pregnancy prevention method. No matter the size of your penis you should be able to find a condom that fits you well, that will keep you and your partner protected, and allow all the pleasures of sex to thrive! Enjoy and good luck.

So what sized condom would you ask for? I imagine for embarrassment sake they do not come in sizes like 'small'. 'tiny' or 'minute' but would start at 'average' and go up in size from there.

Now a condom is a very good way to find out how sexually experienced a woman is. A virgin could not open the pack whilst I wrip it open with my teeth. An inexpereinced women would roll the condom out the wrong way whillst mine rolls like an Amsterdam cafe owners cigarette. Most women have problems putting a condom on a man. I use my mouth!

 I have no fear of a condom as it is a friend, a buddy a pleasure giver.

Now just as man often hates a condom women tend not to moan at all. Of course we would like natural sex. To feel a man ejaculate inside is an incredibly satisfying feeling. Nonetheless, we understand the benefits of being fucked by a condom worn cock and relax and enjoy sex more when it is on.

 For us women a condom can often be an orgasm giver as we can allow our desires and passions to take over once we feel safer.

So I was thinking about how to improve the male attitude to condoms. 

Maybe I should set up a business where men can come and try to find the best condom for them. I could offer fitting sessions. It would be a place a man can decide what is the best size, best colour, best shape etc for his personal use and desires and he could have a trial run wirh me. What do you think???

Let me know.

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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And here is a list of other terms for condom. We can learn to love them all!!!

• French letters
• Parisian
• English overcoats
• English riding-coat

• Rubbers
• Rubbermen
• Rubber Johnnies
• Rubber strait jackets
• Rubber magic
• Plastic wrap

• Hazmat suits
• Battle helmets
• Safety tools
• Sheaths
• Bulletproof vests
• Safes
• The goalies
• Robbers

• Wetsuits
• Raincoats
• Overcoats
• Venus shirts
• Hoodies
• Hats
• Penis hats
• Cock socks
• Dick socks
• Johnny bags
• Gloves
• Love gloves
• Willie warmers

• Jimmies
• Jimmy Hatz
• Wrappers
• Wiener wrappers
• Condomus Maximus
• Prophylactics
• Preservatives
• Caps
• Balloons
• Dingers
• Scumbags
• Blobs
• Flunkies
• Frangers
• The tour guide

Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_are_other_names_for_condoms#ixzz1y1pNn3aG