Wet and Chilly!!!!

The weather in Italy over the Easter period has been incredibly depressing. I imagine businesses requiring a good holiday period must be really upset. Not only has it been wet but it has also been chilly too! These are probably the two worst weather conditions.

So what can you do when the weather gets cold and chilly???  Well for me there is only one thing. You have to make it wet and hot.

I do get very wet when I am having sex. You can always tell when a woman is having fun. Her eyes tell a story and her vagina gives more concrete evidence.

 I do like the sound of a cock moving in and out of my wet hole. The sound is erotic.

So if there is anyone who wants to make me wet then get in touch.

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Fantasy Parties

I often get emails and text messages regarding a certain fantasy. And the fantasy is a sex party, an orgy, a group sex event! I enjoy reading them and also living them. I do have the availability of a pleasant venue where it is safe, discrete and private. If anyone was keen on me starting up a party event just let me know.

I have not organised a party in Italy but used to have a number of parties in the UK. They are fun but not easy to organise. Here are a few guidelines for anyone out there wanting to do them.

1. Location. You cannot have them everywhere. You need a quiet place that has lots of rooms and no prying neighbours. I do have a place like this!

2. Guests. Parties can be very different. I had 'Greedy Girl' parties in the UK. This consisted of me and 2 other girls who were joined by 15 men. Now if you are good at maths this is 5:1. Wow! And it was fun. Great fun! Everyone left with a big smile on their face. This is a similar mix to 'batchelor parties'.
Then there are couples and singles parties. Here you want around 10 couples and maybe 5-10 single males. Many married men love the idea of their wife being fucked. However, they want this in a safe and secure environment so you do not want too many single men. But enough!!!!!

The problem when creating a guest list is that you know many will drop out. People get cold feet when it comes to sex parties. So you tend to invite more than you really need. One way to make sure that people will attend is to ask for deposits. But even with deposits couples can drop out.

3. Ice breaking. One of the reasons people drop out is they are worried and unsure. Will they meet people they know? Will the people be friendly and fun? Will my partner be able to cope seeing me get fucked or to fuck? So one thing you have to do is to make sure people are comfortable as soon as they arrive. They way to do this is to get people like me involved. I am a sex worker and I am used to people coming to my door nervous. So you need people to meet, greet and introduce. These people must be sexily dressed and energetic.

You cannot expect people to just start fucking. You need something fun and suggestive to get people in the mood. This often involves games. Here are a few games I have played which are great fun.

A) Put all the males and females in different rooms. Give everyone a number and have a number of activity cards ready in both rooms. Things like

a) Do a striptease.
b) French kiss number 7
c) Dance naked with number 4
d) Let everone see your tits or cock etc

You can use your imagination here. So there is a women's room and a men's room. And first the women call out a number and the man who has the number must enter the women's room and take an acivity card.Then the men's room does the same.

B) Dare or Dance. Here a number of cards are made asking very personal questions about sex. You can answer them or dance naked!

C) Whose cock is it? The wife or girl friend is blindfolded. meanwhile her partner and two other men take down their pants and offer the woman their cock to suck. The woman must guess her partners cock. If correct ok if wrong she has to do a forfeit. This could mean sucking the other two men or many things. The game can be changed and the male partner licks the cunts of 3 women including his partner and has to guess which is his female friend.

And so on. There are many games you can play but you do need a person who is experienced at controlling and organising games. They must have a good sense of humour and a playful personality.

4. Food and drink. Do not go over the top with food. Have good snacks including pizzas etc. Things people can nibble when hungry. Drink is important. There needs to be plenty of water and soft drinks. Alcohol is needed as it helps people relax but this should only be wine and beer. No spirits. I had one party where there was spirits and some people became morose by the end of the evening. You want people to leave happy and having had a great time. Too much alcohol creates a bad atmosphere.

5. Filming and taking photos. There has to be an agrreement right at the start. I would suggest that nobody was allowed to take them but if you are all well known to each other it can be possible and sometimes fun.

6. Themes. I have been to a few parties with a theme. Here are a few.

A) Romans
B) Cavemen and cavewomen
C) Swimwear
D) S&M
E) Lingerie
B) Pyjamas

They can be great fun but try to make them simple so people do not get too stressed about finding an outfit.

7) Safe and healthy sex. It is vital to have lots of condoms, lots of tissues, lots of massage oils etc. Have lots of bins and places for these to be put once used.

8) A room to change. Many people do not want to wear their party clothes when they arrive for obvious reasons. Have a nice room with mirrors etc where people can change.

9) Have a safe place where people can put valuables.

10) Have a bathroom for men and women and try to ensure people keep to these.

And the most important thing to do is have fun. You will find you have a lot in common with most of the people. And usually by 2 am in the morning the males are chatting about football and the women about family and fashion. Sex is a great way to meet people. Have fun!!!! I do!!!!!

If anyone would like me to organsie a party, then get in touch. They need a lot of planning but can be amazing to attend.

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What do you do on a rainy day in Rome?

Well outside it is grey and dark yet it is 0818. Normally the sun would be out and the skies blue. There is an unusual silence broken by claps of thunder and the pitter patter of rain. Although Rome rain rarely goes pitter patter. More swish thwack! When it rains here it rains. Nothing like the drizzle of UK.

So what do you do in Rome when you have a day like today. Well, I think you have to fuck.

 I know this is my answer to most things but today it is a good one. Rome is and outdoor city. Ok you do get the museums, art galleries and churches but most of life, real life takes place in the open.

People meet in the open. People sit in the open. people eat in the open. And on hot summer nights people fuck in the open. Italians are not  generally open people but we do love the outdoors!

So what I reccommend today is to have sex like the weather. Pounding and heavy sex. Quiet cuddly periods followed by extreme powerful energy with explosive orgasms!!! That sounds fun!

So if you are in Rome and getting wet and weary you can always pop down to Casal Palocco.

The Colombo road will not be busy as not many people will be heading to the sea.

 Here you will find a very welcome embracr, some lively and enjoyable company and of course a real good fuck!

I want to be inside getting wet and not outside!

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It's not just sex!

I have just returned from the Uk where I met up with friends and even attended a wedding. It was a fun time and apart from the weather, awful as usual, I enjoyed being back.

What was really pleasant and quite a bit flattering was the number of people who remembered me, thought a lot about me and were very caring about my well being etc. One site in particular was really helpful.

 http://sussexscene.com/

Because I had no place to play I had to only offer outcalls. I was given lots of advice on where was safe to meet and even offers of accommodation. My only problem was getting around to meet everyone. If I had done this I would have spent my entire trip to the UK with my legs in the air and apart.

The life I lead and the people I spend my time with often get a lot of bad press. And I am yet to understand why. I meet lovely women who are escorts and I am lucky to enjoy the company of wonderful men. We keep ourselves to ourselves, do not hurt anyone and have a lot of mutual fun. The realisation of this was ever present during my time in the UK and I would like to thank everyone for this.

So how did I spend my time in the UK. Well I did visit friends. I did attend a big wedding. I did the sights of London and I got fucked.

I spent a lovely evening in a Tunbridge Wells hotel with an old friend who was charming, fun and naughty. I had a Scotsmen come and take some photos of me. Here is a couple but I have been promised more. I love to pose!

I wish I had worn new shoes!

I also met an old friend who has brought me great delight in the past and he has continued to improve. His tongue is a masterful tool and I had a very big orgasm. Thank you Adrian!

I met with a couple who I used to play with when I lived in Hastings. Apparently it is difficult to find someone they feel comfortable with and they were happy to have me back. She spent a lot of time checking whether I had split ends on my pubic hair and he made sure that I had a sore bum.

They were lovely, fun and very erotic.

How do you spend Sunday mornings? Newspaper and a cup of coffee. I was visited at 10 am by a lovely gentleman who had visited me in St Leonards a few years ago. He remembered me well and was kind enough to say I had not changed at all. He even said I had lost weight!!! My hero. He had a menu of watersports and anal.

However, he seemed to like the taste of my vagina and spent ages reacquainting himself. He then was too excited for the golden shower and moved into anal. Which was great as I really enjoy anal.

And finally I met up with an old friend who used to love smacking my bottom.

 He is a gentle man but gets a little rough when I lay over his knees. 

My bum was red and so was his cheeks from the effort he put in.

So all in all a great time and one I shall treasure as it was wonderful to meet and greet old friends as if we had not been away from each other. I have learned that people who visit me remember the moment and long to maintain some contact. When you share special moments you tend to develop a special bond and this seems to endure over the years.

It is great to love and be loved. Thanks to all!!!!

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Dune di Capacotta- Naked and surrounded by voyeurs!

I have mentioned in previous blogs that Rome has a nudist beach. It is a great place to visit and I am never bored when I go there. There is so much to see!!!!

Yesterday I went there in the afternoon. There is a designated nudist area but this does not allow exhibitionism and is policed.

 Just next to it, however, is a place that nudists, who like to fondle themselves and to those that like to be looked at, go.

And this is where I go.

I go there not for sex. I go there to be naked and to walk totally starkers into the sea without a care. Of course I like to be watched and looked at. Most women do! But I love the freedom. It is exhilirating!

I also like to listen and watch all the goings on. The dunes are full of bodies darting between the sand hillocks looking for thrills. They look like meerkats.Their heads popping up and down to see what is happening around them.

Years ago I would have been frightened to be surrounded by naked men with hard ons. But not nowadays. I don't get excited by it but I am not offended. I am curious. I like to see the cocks on display but never feel in the mood to touch. Fortunately, the men seem to be polite and non threatening. They wank away for ages but never move closer.

Yesterday, I put my towel down and before I had my knickers off there were 3 to 4 men within 10 metres of me in compass positions. To the north I had an elderly man who kept his clothes on. To the south I had a middle aged man with an erection. And east and west I had two young men with lovely bodies who were already displaying their erect cocks.

I am yet to fully understand the desires and needs of a voyeur and what the intentions of these men were. They seem to have a script that they stick to and get enjoyment from. All carry a newspaper or something similar in size which thep put in front of their cocks when people pass. But when they feel it is safe and I might be watching they remove it and continue to wank. The attention is flattering but I am yet to feel the need to fuck them. It may happen one day and I will let you know if it does.

Anyway, these men surrounded me for the two hours I was on the beach. The two men never lost their erection all that time. I swam naked in the sea twice, had a lovely sunbathe and did not feel frightened or threatened all the time I was there. I then packed up and left. The men packed up too and went to look for someone else to ogle.

I am yet to fully understand the enjoyment in what they do. I cannot imagine a woman doing anything similar. If we see something we are curious but would never go looking for it. Let me know if you have any insights into this. Nonetheless, we all had a good afternoon and I will be back!!!!

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Kink,Fetish and Perversion!

This is an interesting topic for me as because I am an escort I often share special thoughts and desires of people that visit me.

 As sex is not an open subject in many conversations we really have no idea what is commonly liked and disliked. 

Some of the more drastic perversions are often reported in the public media and we can gain some idea of what most people think as a result of the reaction.

Nonetheless, it is a very grey area and one that I continue to be confused about..Is visiting an escort or being an escort a kink or a fetish? Is it a perversion?

I read on a blog the following.

fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification depends to an abnormal degree on some object or item of clothing or part of the body, so i think that guy has an underwear fetish. perversion is the action of perverting something (tuning it to a wrong use)

The last part interests me as accoding to many religious organisations sex is to do with procreation. So is sex for fun a perversion. So we are all perverts then!!!

On the subject of 'fetish and 'kink' another writer has informed us that,

there is a huge difference between an actual "fetish" and a "kink" according to the psychological community...a fetish is something that a person absolutely NEEDS in order to become sexually turned on. what we call a kink, is just a little sexual quirk about a person, something they really enjoy, something that turns them on in a special way, something extra, icing on the cake...but can get turned on sexually with or without these things...so i guess i really have no real "fetishes", cause apparently, a TRUE fetishist is absolutely fixated on the object or act which turns them on...so a true fetish is more like an obsession than a turn-on. interesting. so i have tons of kinks, but no true fetishes...hmmm.

Here are some images Google places under 'fetish'.

So I do meet many people with a fetish and also many, many with a kink. I have men who cannot get erections if I do not wear a certain pair of tights or stockings. Others need me to do things to them before they can get hard. This they demand every visit. This I would term a 'fetish'. It is where you are locked into a thing or act and find sex impossible without this.

These are images Google gives when you search 'kink'.

A kink as a sexual quirk is something we all have I think. I enjoy food, for example, but I enjoy it more if it is served and delivered in a certain way. I can eat the food without this but get more enjoyment if it follows a certain preferred manner. So it is with sex. I enjoy penetration any way but I much prefer the man on top fucking me hard. I also like his fingers to explore my anus when this is happening. I always orgasm when this happens but not always in other positions.

But as I have said before, sex is a very grey area with little understanding of what generally happens when people get it together. Some people's kink is another person's fetish. And there are some people who would call all of it perverted.

The difference for me between 'kink', 'fetish' and perversion is that the first two involves all parties to be in agreement and to be having equal enjoyment. I am happy to 'pee' over you as long as you enjoy being 'peed' over.

A perversion on the otherhand is where you gain sexual gratification from doing something where the other involved parties are not in agreement, not mentally able to understand the act or where the law has made it illegal. The latter can be open to discussion as we mentioned in the last blog on anal sex.

Here is Googles take on perversion. I am not sure I totally agree but as I said sex is a very misunderstood subject and open to debate.

So visiting an escort can be normal, it can be a 'kink', it can also be a 'fetish'. It can also be a perversion if the escort is being forced to do it.

I do not like perverts, but I do love people with a 'kink, people with a 'fetish' and I am also happy to have NORMAL sex too!!!!!

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