Party Time!!!!

I may have mentioned in a previous blog that I used to organise parties when I lived in England. I had a big place by the sea and it was a great venue for a gathering of like minded people. Getting people intent on sex is not easy though. You need a good mix of males and females. I used to get couples and then about 5-10 single men to make it exciting. Age did not matter too much but everyone needed to be energetic!

Well, most people who have never been to a sex party imagine that it is a world of debauchery with unmentionable things going on.

 In my opinion this is not the case and I do have experience of a number of different parties. In the main the people attending are quite normal people with normal jobs and normal routines and now and again they like to let their hair down and go to a party where sex is on the menu.

 People when they go to ordinary parties often imagine sex taking place but are usually disappointed. Sex parties as the name suggests tells you that sex will take place. You don't know the quantity or quality but you know there will be action. So everyone can relax and know that it is going to happen.

When people arrive there is a nervousness and excitement that you don't get at other kinds of parties.

People exchange small talk and discuss things nothing to do with sex. This is a good time to serve food and drink so people can do something and chat as well.

Parties need a very sociable, outgoing organiser. And I must admit that I am very good at this. I am unshockable and I like to laugh and have fun. I also like to organise things and somebody needs to get things going or else everyone will just stand around talking about the weather!

One thing I used to do was to get all the females in one room and all the males in the other. Each group then had to decide on one person who was to go next door. This person had to accept what the others wanted to do with them. They could not refuse, well within limits they had always to say 'yes'.

I had no problem being in a room with men but it always seemed best to send someone else. We sent a married woman whose husband was in the room next door. When she entered the room they suddenly blindfolded her and put her on her knees. Then every male put their cock in her mouth and she had to decide which cock was her husband's. She was only allowed to use her mouth and hands were not allowed. Amazingly she got it right which seemed to imply that she spent a lot of time in that region!

The games went on for a short time and both the males and females became comfortable in each others company. Once everyone was relaxed the action usually started.

However, amazingly at around 2 am most people were in the kitchen eating snacks and having a drink and back to having everyday conversation. The only difference between this and any other party was that everyone was naked!

I am happy to have parties in Rome. They would not be big affairs but would require couples and singles. Let me know if anyone wants to be involved. If there is any interest I may start up a facebook account where we could all discuss it!

This is me at one of my parties. The organiser has to have fun too!!!!

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Fantasy Parties

I often get emails and text messages regarding a certain fantasy. And the fantasy is a sex party, an orgy, a group sex event! I enjoy reading them and also living them. I do have the availability of a pleasant venue where it is safe, discrete and private. If anyone was keen on me starting up a party event just let me know.

I have not organised a party in Italy but used to have a number of parties in the UK. They are fun but not easy to organise. Here are a few guidelines for anyone out there wanting to do them.

1. Location. You cannot have them everywhere. You need a quiet place that has lots of rooms and no prying neighbours. I do have a place like this!

2. Guests. Parties can be very different. I had 'Greedy Girl' parties in the UK. This consisted of me and 2 other girls who were joined by 15 men. Now if you are good at maths this is 5:1. Wow! And it was fun. Great fun! Everyone left with a big smile on their face. This is a similar mix to 'batchelor parties'.
Then there are couples and singles parties. Here you want around 10 couples and maybe 5-10 single males. Many married men love the idea of their wife being fucked. However, they want this in a safe and secure environment so you do not want too many single men. But enough!!!!!

The problem when creating a guest list is that you know many will drop out. People get cold feet when it comes to sex parties. So you tend to invite more than you really need. One way to make sure that people will attend is to ask for deposits. But even with deposits couples can drop out.

3. Ice breaking. One of the reasons people drop out is they are worried and unsure. Will they meet people they know? Will the people be friendly and fun? Will my partner be able to cope seeing me get fucked or to fuck? So one thing you have to do is to make sure people are comfortable as soon as they arrive. They way to do this is to get people like me involved. I am a sex worker and I am used to people coming to my door nervous. So you need people to meet, greet and introduce. These people must be sexily dressed and energetic.

You cannot expect people to just start fucking. You need something fun and suggestive to get people in the mood. This often involves games. Here are a few games I have played which are great fun.

A) Put all the males and females in different rooms. Give everyone a number and have a number of activity cards ready in both rooms. Things like

a) Do a striptease.
b) French kiss number 7
c) Dance naked with number 4
d) Let everone see your tits or cock etc

You can use your imagination here. So there is a women's room and a men's room. And first the women call out a number and the man who has the number must enter the women's room and take an acivity card.Then the men's room does the same.

B) Dare or Dance. Here a number of cards are made asking very personal questions about sex. You can answer them or dance naked!

C) Whose cock is it? The wife or girl friend is blindfolded. meanwhile her partner and two other men take down their pants and offer the woman their cock to suck. The woman must guess her partners cock. If correct ok if wrong she has to do a forfeit. This could mean sucking the other two men or many things. The game can be changed and the male partner licks the cunts of 3 women including his partner and has to guess which is his female friend.

And so on. There are many games you can play but you do need a person who is experienced at controlling and organising games. They must have a good sense of humour and a playful personality.

4. Food and drink. Do not go over the top with food. Have good snacks including pizzas etc. Things people can nibble when hungry. Drink is important. There needs to be plenty of water and soft drinks. Alcohol is needed as it helps people relax but this should only be wine and beer. No spirits. I had one party where there was spirits and some people became morose by the end of the evening. You want people to leave happy and having had a great time. Too much alcohol creates a bad atmosphere.

5. Filming and taking photos. There has to be an agrreement right at the start. I would suggest that nobody was allowed to take them but if you are all well known to each other it can be possible and sometimes fun.

6. Themes. I have been to a few parties with a theme. Here are a few.

A) Romans
B) Cavemen and cavewomen
C) Swimwear
D) S&M
E) Lingerie
B) Pyjamas

They can be great fun but try to make them simple so people do not get too stressed about finding an outfit.

7) Safe and healthy sex. It is vital to have lots of condoms, lots of tissues, lots of massage oils etc. Have lots of bins and places for these to be put once used.

8) A room to change. Many people do not want to wear their party clothes when they arrive for obvious reasons. Have a nice room with mirrors etc where people can change.

9) Have a safe place where people can put valuables.

10) Have a bathroom for men and women and try to ensure people keep to these.

And the most important thing to do is have fun. You will find you have a lot in common with most of the people. And usually by 2 am in the morning the males are chatting about football and the women about family and fashion. Sex is a great way to meet people. Have fun!!!! I do!!!!!

If anyone would like me to organsie a party, then get in touch. They need a lot of planning but can be amazing to attend.

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