Young Men!!!

When I lived in England I had a male friend who was born in Peru. His family was English and he was brought up in the English way but had spent his early years in Lima.

He told me a story about his 16th birthday. Here he had been taken by his father to a brothel where his father had paid for him to have sex. At the time I was not an escort and the idea of going to a prostitute was a remote one. It was also a very unEnglish thing to do.

The reason I mention this is that recently I have had a lot of enquiries from 18-25 year olds. They appear to believe that I would be really excited to have sex with them. But I am not. The thought is not exciting and I always refuse. I could not imagine being the woman who had sex with a 16 year old with the father waiting outside the room!

But why?

1. I think men this age should not be visiting an escort. I am a prude!!!!

2. My friends who have done it say this age group can get infatuations and be a pain.

3. Sex is something to explore and when you are young it is best to explore with your own age group.

4. You explore with an escort after you have been exploring and are looking for something new.

5. I don't want to be a mother figure. Or to do any Freudian sex stuff.

6. I actually prefer older men. I do have a particular age range that really do excite me, but I will keep this a secret! I am definitely not a 'cougar'.

So if you are 18-25 and reading this please do not be offended. I think you are lovely but do not want sex with you. If you are aged over 25 well please get in touch. I would love sex with you!!!

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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Your bum looks better!

I had a playmate yesterday who had been to see me a few years ago. One thing he told me was that my bum looked better. He did not go into details because he was excited.

Now this statement could mean many things and most women think the same as me, so men out there learn.

This simple comment can conjure up many contrasting thoughts and here are a few that have zoomed through my head.

1. My bum was awful before!

2. My bum was nice before and now it is better.

3. My bum looks terrible and he is being ironic.

4. My bum looked sick before but now it looks well.

5. My bum was fat before and now it looks thinner.

6. My bum looked thin before and now it looks plumper.

7. Or maybe none of these. Maybe he was nervous and these words just jumped out but have no significance.

Yes, we are complicated creatures but treat us right and we can be quite easy to understand. So if you are visiting and want to compliment my bum, say something like

'Wow, Daria your bum looks magnificent what exercise have you been doing? Not that it wasn't gorgeous before, as it was, but now it is really touchable and adorable.'

So if anyone out there wants to take a look at my bum, that 'now looks better', get in touch.

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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PS By the way I am not really this paranoid. It just came out that way. I actually like my bum and I know that men I have played with do too!

Pardon My French!

One thing that I have managed to acquire since being an escort is the ability to swear and make profanities in both Italian and English.

Many men do not normally find a woman who swears attractive. That is what I have been told anyhow.

Nonetheless, when having sex men quite like to hear a few bad words and I must admit that I find it a turn on too.

The British have an interesting expression, 'Pardom My French'. It comes from the period when Britain was was at war with France and anything French was a no no. So to say France or French was like a swear word. So, nowadays, many British  people when they swear will utter , 'pardon my french' or even 'sorry about my French' as an offer of aplogy for saying the swear word. Men have sometimes said it to me when we are lying in bed together.

However, are all swear words acceptable in the bedroom. I suppose they are. Lying naked and having sex we often bares our soul too and we want to be both natural in our actions and in our speech. Swearing is natural and some psychologists feel benefitial too.

Here is what a female friend told me about being sworn at when fucking.

I would take it that he is enjoying it!

I get called everything from a fucking whore to a dirty slut with lots of fucks inbetween. I always take it as a compliment.

If I was swore at or called those things whilst not in the bedroom I would be extremely offended.

And I agree. 

If swearing makes my partner more excited and he was to fuck me deeper then he can swear as much as he likes. If his cock goes harder and wider by calling me a 'slut' we will both be having some fun. But it ends in the bedroom.

So if anyone wants to call me a few unmentionable names then get in touch. I like to be fucked!

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Freud Breakfast

The only unnatural sex is not having any. Everything else is preference and opportunity.

Freud was a great man who tried to understand sex and how we all related to it. The only problem was that he was male. It would have been much better had he been a woman as I often think than men are far easier to understand on most matters including sex, whilst women are far more complex.

Our desire for sex changes with age. Some of this is conditioned by society and some is very natural. I am, at the moment, extremely sexual.

 I need sex and love having sex. The sex I need is much different, however, to the sex I needed when I was 2o for example.

Nonetheless, whether now or aged 20 sex was a big part of my life and I could never contemplate a life without sex. So I heartily agree with Freud.

I do get visitors who tell me that they are visiting me because their partner is no longer interested in sex. I do not think this is so. 

What has happened is that the man usually craves a different kind of sex and the female partner is unsure and frightened of moving to this new sexual experience. Women need time and need to understand the desire.

For example, men often have a desire to see their partner with another man. This seems a very common fantasy- As a woman we fail to understand sometimes what this means. Does it mean the partner has stopped loving? Does it mean the partner does not care anymore? Why would your man want to see you fucked by someone else?

And what happens if you do fuck another man? What will he think? Sometimes a fantasy when realised can be troubling. Will he still love you?

And when you are being fucked, do you fuck with enthusiasm? Do you have orgasms? Do you show true feelings to the man fucking you? And if you do, what are the consequences?

Females, consequently become a little confused and often retreat when faced with new sexual experiences. Not because they do not have similar desires and fantasies but they are troubled by what will happen after. In the main women run the household, they try to control the emotions and feelings of those within the household. The tendency is to be the peacemaker and sometimes the things men want can be something that has a potential to destroy the status quo. So it is no wonder women sometimes refrain and even abstain.

Women need to be loved and to know that the love is constant. They also need to understand why a man would desire a new experience. If they can understand and realise that the consequences of participation will not affect the household and may even benefit the household then they will become a willing participant.

I know this to be true!

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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Squirting and gushing

Squirting and gushing are words that I have only fairly recently come across. They both have similar meanings and usually refer to producing a lot of liquid and letting it out in one sudden rush.

One reason I am writing about it is that some people are beginning to ask for it. So I had to find out what it means. It seems that some women when they orgasm produce a lot of liquid that suddenly shoots out from their vagina. It seems that it is a similar orgasm to the one men have. Mess everywhere!

My orgasms are good and wet but I never seem to wet the bed or the walls. I leave that to men!

But it seems that some women can. It also seems that there is a debate regarding both squirting and gushing. Here is one comment I found on the web.

In my opionon, squirting and gushing are very different. My girlfriend is a squirter, not a gusher. A gusher is vaginal fluid from INSIDE your vagina, and usually heavier in consistency. It's what makes you "wet" - My girlfriend is the opposite, and "squirts" fluid from clitoral play. It's much lighter and comes out of the same hole in which you urinate. However, it's NOT urine. Read the differences. Frankly, I find them both to be highly erotic. Keep trying, perhaps you'll learn to do both! Not all men like this, but I CERTAINLY DO! 

  

It would be good to get some feedback from men. I imagine the men who like it have to wear rainwear during sex. Now that would be fun!

So if there is anyone who can get me to squirt or even gush then get in touch!

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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PS When I look at some of these pics it does look as if the females are peeing. Now I can do that!