The only unnatural sex is not having any. Everything else is preference and opportunity.
Freud was a great man who tried to understand sex and how we all related to it. The only problem was that he was male. It would have been much better had he been a woman as I often think than men are far easier to understand on most matters including sex, whilst women are far more complex.
Our desire for sex changes with age. Some of this is conditioned by society and some is very natural. I am, at the moment, extremely sexual.
I need sex and love having sex. The sex I need is much different, however, to the sex I needed when I was 2o for example.
Nonetheless, whether now or aged 20 sex was a big part of my life and I could never contemplate a life without sex. So I heartily agree with Freud.
I do get visitors who tell me that they are visiting me because their partner is no longer interested in sex. I do not think this is so.
What has happened is that the man usually craves a different kind of sex and the female partner is unsure and frightened of moving to this new sexual experience. Women need time and need to understand the desire.
For example, men often have a desire to see their partner with another man. This seems a very common fantasy- As a woman we fail to understand sometimes what this means. Does it mean the partner has stopped loving? Does it mean the partner does not care anymore? Why would your man want to see you fucked by someone else?
And what happens if you do fuck another man? What will he think? Sometimes a fantasy when realised can be troubling. Will he still love you?
And when you are being fucked, do you fuck with enthusiasm? Do you have orgasms? Do you show true feelings to the man fucking you? And if you do, what are the consequences?
Females, consequently become a little confused and often retreat when faced with new sexual experiences. Not because they do not have similar desires and fantasies but they are troubled by what will happen after. In the main women run the household, they try to control the emotions and feelings of those within the household. The tendency is to be the peacemaker and sometimes the things men want can be something that has a potential to destroy the status quo. So it is no wonder women sometimes refrain and even abstain.
Women need to be loved and to know that the love is constant. They also need to understand why a man would desire a new experience. If they can understand and realise that the consequences of participation will not affect the household and may even benefit the household then they will become a willing participant.
I know this to be true!
dariax@hotmail.co.uk
0039 3281769818
Freud was a great man who tried to understand sex and how we all related to it. The only problem was that he was male. It would have been much better had he been a woman as I often think than men are far easier to understand on most matters including sex, whilst women are far more complex.
Our desire for sex changes with age. Some of this is conditioned by society and some is very natural. I am, at the moment, extremely sexual.
I need sex and love having sex. The sex I need is much different, however, to the sex I needed when I was 2o for example.
Nonetheless, whether now or aged 20 sex was a big part of my life and I could never contemplate a life without sex. So I heartily agree with Freud.
I do get visitors who tell me that they are visiting me because their partner is no longer interested in sex. I do not think this is so.
What has happened is that the man usually craves a different kind of sex and the female partner is unsure and frightened of moving to this new sexual experience. Women need time and need to understand the desire.
For example, men often have a desire to see their partner with another man. This seems a very common fantasy- As a woman we fail to understand sometimes what this means. Does it mean the partner has stopped loving? Does it mean the partner does not care anymore? Why would your man want to see you fucked by someone else?
And what happens if you do fuck another man? What will he think? Sometimes a fantasy when realised can be troubling. Will he still love you?
And when you are being fucked, do you fuck with enthusiasm? Do you have orgasms? Do you show true feelings to the man fucking you? And if you do, what are the consequences?
Females, consequently become a little confused and often retreat when faced with new sexual experiences. Not because they do not have similar desires and fantasies but they are troubled by what will happen after. In the main women run the household, they try to control the emotions and feelings of those within the household. The tendency is to be the peacemaker and sometimes the things men want can be something that has a potential to destroy the status quo. So it is no wonder women sometimes refrain and even abstain.
Women need to be loved and to know that the love is constant. They also need to understand why a man would desire a new experience. If they can understand and realise that the consequences of participation will not affect the household and may even benefit the household then they will become a willing participant.
I know this to be true!
dariax@hotmail.co.uk
0039 3281769818
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