Fantasy Parties

I often get emails and text messages regarding a certain fantasy. And the fantasy is a sex party, an orgy, a group sex event! I enjoy reading them and also living them. I do have the availability of a pleasant venue where it is safe, discrete and private. If anyone was keen on me starting up a party event just let me know.

I have not organised a party in Italy but used to have a number of parties in the UK. They are fun but not easy to organise. Here are a few guidelines for anyone out there wanting to do them.

1. Location. You cannot have them everywhere. You need a quiet place that has lots of rooms and no prying neighbours. I do have a place like this!

2. Guests. Parties can be very different. I had 'Greedy Girl' parties in the UK. This consisted of me and 2 other girls who were joined by 15 men. Now if you are good at maths this is 5:1. Wow! And it was fun. Great fun! Everyone left with a big smile on their face. This is a similar mix to 'batchelor parties'.
Then there are couples and singles parties. Here you want around 10 couples and maybe 5-10 single males. Many married men love the idea of their wife being fucked. However, they want this in a safe and secure environment so you do not want too many single men. But enough!!!!!

The problem when creating a guest list is that you know many will drop out. People get cold feet when it comes to sex parties. So you tend to invite more than you really need. One way to make sure that people will attend is to ask for deposits. But even with deposits couples can drop out.

3. Ice breaking. One of the reasons people drop out is they are worried and unsure. Will they meet people they know? Will the people be friendly and fun? Will my partner be able to cope seeing me get fucked or to fuck? So one thing you have to do is to make sure people are comfortable as soon as they arrive. They way to do this is to get people like me involved. I am a sex worker and I am used to people coming to my door nervous. So you need people to meet, greet and introduce. These people must be sexily dressed and energetic.

You cannot expect people to just start fucking. You need something fun and suggestive to get people in the mood. This often involves games. Here are a few games I have played which are great fun.

A) Put all the males and females in different rooms. Give everyone a number and have a number of activity cards ready in both rooms. Things like

a) Do a striptease.
b) French kiss number 7
c) Dance naked with number 4
d) Let everone see your tits or cock etc

You can use your imagination here. So there is a women's room and a men's room. And first the women call out a number and the man who has the number must enter the women's room and take an acivity card.Then the men's room does the same.

B) Dare or Dance. Here a number of cards are made asking very personal questions about sex. You can answer them or dance naked!

C) Whose cock is it? The wife or girl friend is blindfolded. meanwhile her partner and two other men take down their pants and offer the woman their cock to suck. The woman must guess her partners cock. If correct ok if wrong she has to do a forfeit. This could mean sucking the other two men or many things. The game can be changed and the male partner licks the cunts of 3 women including his partner and has to guess which is his female friend.

And so on. There are many games you can play but you do need a person who is experienced at controlling and organising games. They must have a good sense of humour and a playful personality.

4. Food and drink. Do not go over the top with food. Have good snacks including pizzas etc. Things people can nibble when hungry. Drink is important. There needs to be plenty of water and soft drinks. Alcohol is needed as it helps people relax but this should only be wine and beer. No spirits. I had one party where there was spirits and some people became morose by the end of the evening. You want people to leave happy and having had a great time. Too much alcohol creates a bad atmosphere.

5. Filming and taking photos. There has to be an agrreement right at the start. I would suggest that nobody was allowed to take them but if you are all well known to each other it can be possible and sometimes fun.

6. Themes. I have been to a few parties with a theme. Here are a few.

A) Romans
B) Cavemen and cavewomen
C) Swimwear
D) S&M
E) Lingerie
B) Pyjamas

They can be great fun but try to make them simple so people do not get too stressed about finding an outfit.

7) Safe and healthy sex. It is vital to have lots of condoms, lots of tissues, lots of massage oils etc. Have lots of bins and places for these to be put once used.

8) A room to change. Many people do not want to wear their party clothes when they arrive for obvious reasons. Have a nice room with mirrors etc where people can change.

9) Have a safe place where people can put valuables.

10) Have a bathroom for men and women and try to ensure people keep to these.

And the most important thing to do is have fun. You will find you have a lot in common with most of the people. And usually by 2 am in the morning the males are chatting about football and the women about family and fashion. Sex is a great way to meet people. Have fun!!!! I do!!!!!

If anyone would like me to organsie a party, then get in touch. They need a lot of planning but can be amazing to attend.

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dariax@hotmail.co.uk

If music be the food of love then can I eat whilst you are playing?

An exciting request!

I had a very lively and interesting chat  today with a man I shall call 'M'. It was interesting as he is Italian and I am Italian and we mainly chatted in English. But more importantly, he had a very interesting proposition to make concerning a dinner date. I did tell him I would write about it so I am not being disloyal. I would never write something if the person involved was against it or it was not flattering for them. So he does know I am writing this and is quite excited that I am.

Well this dinner date happens here in Rome. 'M' takes me to a very nice restaurant, where the food is good and the atmosphere is romantic. Before entering the resaurant he wants to pay my escort fee.

On entering the restaurant he wants me to flirt with anyone who is around. He wants me to make eye contact with people and to act as if I am not interested in him. This could be difficult as I enjoy food and I like to chat about the food when I am eating and I also become very contented and happy when good food is on the table before me.

I forgot to mention that I am not wearing knickers and my boobs are quite evident. I do have nice boobs, so men tell me, they are 36DD. They often catch the eye! And poke the eye!

'M' tries to make interesting conversation but I ignore him. As I do this I make sure that my legs are slightly ajar so that a suitable man can take a look between my legs. These kinds of events are difficult to orchestrate but it does seem fairly easy to find a willing Italian man whatever the situation.

'M' is hoping or maybe he has planned it, that a man becomes interested in the views he is being offered. 'M' continues to make polite conversation but is making little impact on me as I have my interests elsewhere. The man, who has taken a sparkle to me, then rises in more ways than one and moves off to the toilets. After a few seconds I apologise to 'M' and tell him that I need the 'Ladies'.

The loos have a common door that both sexes have to enter before dividing into two sections. There is a wash basin in the middle of these two doors and the man is washing his hands near the disabled toilet. As he sees me he smiles and pulls me inside the disabled toilet. It is a large area. He immediately removes my bra and puts it into his pocket. He then sucks my breast gently as his hands move to my crotch which is already wet and welcoming. He slides two fingers inside and I suddenly have a nice feeling from my fanny to my stomach. He kisses my neck gently and I shudder. We then stop and make ourselves presentable before moving back into the restaurant.

The man tells me to wait and then enters the restaurant moving towards 'M'. As he nears 'M' he speaks and he moves his fingers, the ones that have been inside me, over 'M's nose and then he presents him with my bra.

As he returns to his table I sit back down opposite 'M' and start tucking into the food still on my plate. 'M' never mentions the man and simply carries on his boring conversation that we were having prior to the toilet trip. I keep my eyes on the man who I had been to the toilet with. He is looking my way and I move my legs so he can view my fanny. He smiles.

'M' suddenly asks for the bill as if he wants to leave. He is agitated but excited. He goes to take my hand and I remove it.

'Let's go' he says.

 'Not yet' I reply.

'I want to go now' he pleads.

'I'm not ready.'

'When will you be ready.'

'Maybe never!'

'Don't you like me.'

'Not much'

'But I paid you to have dinner with me!'

'I've had dinner and it was really nice. Thank you.'

'So that's it then.'

'I like to be full up'

'What's that mean?'

'Well I know somebody who is very able to fill me up and I am afraid that man is not you.'

I then wave at the man from the toilet and beckon him. At first he is confused but quickly comprehends the situation and comes towards 'M' and me.

As I leave the restaurant with the man I turn to 'M' and say.

'Thanks for the dinner. Let's do it again!'

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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