I often get emails and text messages regarding a certain fantasy. And the fantasy is a sex party, an orgy, a group sex event! I enjoy reading them and also living them. I do have the availability of a pleasant venue where it is safe, discrete and private. If anyone was keen on me starting up a party event just let me know.
I have not organised a party in Italy but used to have a number of parties in the UK. They are fun but not easy to organise. Here are a few guidelines for anyone out there wanting to do them.
1. Location. You cannot have them everywhere. You need a quiet place that has lots of rooms and no prying neighbours. I do have a place like this!
2. Guests. Parties can be very different. I had 'Greedy Girl' parties in the UK. This consisted of me and 2 other girls who were joined by 15 men. Now if you are good at maths this is 5:1. Wow! And it was fun. Great fun! Everyone left with a big smile on their face. This is a similar mix to 'batchelor parties'.
Then there are couples and singles parties. Here you want around 10 couples and maybe 5-10 single males. Many married men love the idea of their wife being fucked. However, they want this in a safe and secure environment so you do not want too many single men. But enough!!!!!
The problem when creating a guest list is that you know many will drop out. People get cold feet when it comes to sex parties. So you tend to invite more than you really need. One way to make sure that people will attend is to ask for deposits. But even with deposits couples can drop out.
3. Ice breaking. One of the reasons people drop out is they are worried and unsure. Will they meet people they know? Will the people be friendly and fun? Will my partner be able to cope seeing me get fucked or to fuck? So one thing you have to do is to make sure people are comfortable as soon as they arrive. They way to do this is to get people like me involved. I am a sex worker and I am used to people coming to my door nervous. So you need people to meet, greet and introduce. These people must be sexily dressed and energetic.
You cannot expect people to just start fucking. You need something fun and suggestive to get people in the mood. This often involves games. Here are a few games I have played which are great fun.
A) Put all the males and females in different rooms. Give everyone a number and have a number of activity cards ready in both rooms. Things like
a) Do a striptease.
b) French kiss number 7
c) Dance naked with number 4
d) Let everone see your tits or cock etc
You can use your imagination here. So there is a women's room and a men's room. And first the women call out a number and the man who has the number must enter the women's room and take an acivity card.Then the men's room does the same.
B) Dare or Dance. Here a number of cards are made asking very personal questions about sex. You can answer them or dance naked!
C) Whose cock is it? The wife or girl friend is blindfolded. meanwhile her partner and two other men take down their pants and offer the woman their cock to suck. The woman must guess her partners cock. If correct ok if wrong she has to do a forfeit. This could mean sucking the other two men or many things. The game can be changed and the male partner licks the cunts of 3 women including his partner and has to guess which is his female friend.
And so on. There are many games you can play but you do need a person who is experienced at controlling and organising games. They must have a good sense of humour and a playful personality.
4. Food and drink. Do not go over the top with food. Have good snacks including pizzas etc. Things people can nibble when hungry. Drink is important. There needs to be plenty of water and soft drinks. Alcohol is needed as it helps people relax but this should only be wine and beer. No spirits. I had one party where there was spirits and some people became morose by the end of the evening. You want people to leave happy and having had a great time. Too much alcohol creates a bad atmosphere.
5. Filming and taking photos. There has to be an agrreement right at the start. I would suggest that nobody was allowed to take them but if you are all well known to each other it can be possible and sometimes fun.
6. Themes. I have been to a few parties with a theme. Here are a few.
A) Romans
B) Cavemen and cavewomen
C) Swimwear
D) S&M
E) Lingerie
B) Pyjamas
They can be great fun but try to make them simple so people do not get too stressed about finding an outfit.
7) Safe and healthy sex. It is vital to have lots of condoms, lots of tissues, lots of massage oils etc. Have lots of bins and places for these to be put once used.
8) A room to change. Many people do not want to wear their party clothes when they arrive for obvious reasons. Have a nice room with mirrors etc where people can change.
9) Have a safe place where people can put valuables.
10) Have a bathroom for men and women and try to ensure people keep to these.
And the most important thing to do is have fun. You will find you have a lot in common with most of the people. And usually by 2 am in the morning the males are chatting about football and the women about family and fashion. Sex is a great way to meet people. Have fun!!!! I do!!!!!
If anyone would like me to organsie a party, then get in touch. They need a lot of planning but can be amazing to attend.
0039 3281769818
dariax@hotmail.co.uk
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