Are you having me on?

Because my mobile phone number is very visible in many places I do get some strange calls and messages. I have learnt to sieve through the real to the 'having me on' calls etc. But I still make mistakes and one thing I don't want to do is to be slightly abrupt to someone who is a bona fide caller. I mean what person would not get a little irate when for the 5th time on the same day I am asked the same details from the same person. I am able to remember voices and I do have the know how to record calls. So in the main I know who wants to see me and who wants a wank or to play around!

Nonetheless, I do make mistakes and I am always willing to learn. My usual format for meeting new people is to make sure they reveal their number. I will discuss things on text messages but I always want to hear a voice before I arrange a meeting. This is for my safety. People who have been before are not a problem, that's if they were friendly and good company. So for a few days I had been getting messages from a guy who said he could not call me as he was deaf. Now my first reaction was 'pull the other one'! But then I started to get e-mails too.

I then began to think what if this person was deaf and I was treating him so badly and not meeting his needs as I should be doing. Part of me hoped that he would find someone else or just get too tired of messaging me. But he did not, he persisted.

In the end I decided to meet by text messages only. This was a unique experience for me and I was a little concerned. In the end I decided to meet at a local hotel that I use. I could easily give this address without too much concern and if he failed to turn up it was not far to go home.

The meeting was for 9pm and it was going to be a 2 hour meeting. I arrived in the car park at the agreed time and there was a man waiting outside- He was the only man there and he looked my way and so I waved and he waved back. He was my man!

Well, in the end all my concerns were not warranted. He was deaf and he did speak in a different way but we communicated freely and it was an extremely enjoyable meet. He was everything a woman would want. He was caring, he was gentle, he was considerate, he was amorous, he was loving and he got hard in the right places. He was also excellent company and had a great sense of humour.

So what is the moral here? I think you should have rules in your life but now and again these may need to be broken. Rules are only guidelines, they are the signposts that help you make decisions. But if I had stuck by rules I would never have met this lovely man!

So I am starting to learn sign language and my first sign I will learn is 'fuck me' and then 'thank you'!

So if you do want to break some rules then get in touch.

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

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The modern taboo!

In a day I get many phone calls. Some days it is very hectic. I try to give time to all my callers and to help them feel comfortable. This is not always possible. Sometimes it is impossible!

Now and again a real 'wally' wants to ring time and again to annoy me. I am not sure what his/her need is but there are days when I am not too happy with caller. 

The challenge always comes after such a day when a nervous caller wants to talk about something they find difficult. They need a sympathetic ear and after a morning of brutal phone calls my ear and tolerance are not what they should be.

Callers want to discuss their particular fantasy and many are often shy to talk. They shouldn't be as I am yet to hear a truly original fantasy. Nonetheless, people worry that their fantasy may offend or upset and so are unsure of themselves.

There are other callers who are shy or embarrassed about their body. They don't have the body the media is constantly publicising or they have bits that they are not happy with or they feel may be rejected.

Quite frequently I get callers who have a disabilty. They have mobility issues or they have visual or hearing needs.

We all need sex. We are all very sexual. Your needs and desires do not go away if your body is not fashion magazine perfect. Your desires do not go away with age.

It is not a fantasy of mine to have sex with a disabled person but neither am I against the idea. People are people and I enjoy people. I enjoy meeting people from all walks of live. My bed is a living world where I have a wonderful opportunity to play and have a discourse with people I would not usually expect to socialise with. It is fun

Toleration and acceptance should be expected for all and I include myself. Some men who have fucked me will go away and when in polite conversation will deride the role I have in life.

Everyone needs to share intimate moments. To be naked and to only wear a smile. It is important. Lonely days are bearable when you have an opportunity now and again to lie next to a naked friend. To whisper things you would never discuss publically.

As long as we are happy with what we are doing and nobody is being hurt we should be allowed to do it. Sex is wonderful. It occupies a lot of our thoughts and we all have them. And I mean all!

Which brings me to an interesting fantasy a friend has. When he was young his girl friend broke her foot. He, naturally visited her, and became quite fond of the foot. The foot became a great stimulation to him. The foot was in plaster and conjured up amazingly erotic fantasies.

These fantasies grew as he got older and eventually he had a plaster cast of a foot made and kept it in a secret place at home. When he visited me he had this plaster cast in a bag.

I had to strip naked and to wear the cast on my foot. Luckily it fit quite well. He wanted me to walk up and down my stairs. He loved the sound the plaster foot made on the wooden floors and my movement when wearing the foot. Eventually he ejaculated on the foot and was in blissful heaven.

It was an unusual but not unpleasant experience. I do enjoy unusual experiences!!!!

So the message this morning is whatever your colour, your creed, your age or your appearance etc go and have some fun.

And I am here if you need some!

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dariax@hotmail.co.uk