Are you having me on?

Because my mobile phone number is very visible in many places I do get some strange calls and messages. I have learnt to sieve through the real to the 'having me on' calls etc. But I still make mistakes and one thing I don't want to do is to be slightly abrupt to someone who is a bona fide caller. I mean what person would not get a little irate when for the 5th time on the same day I am asked the same details from the same person. I am able to remember voices and I do have the know how to record calls. So in the main I know who wants to see me and who wants a wank or to play around!

Nonetheless, I do make mistakes and I am always willing to learn. My usual format for meeting new people is to make sure they reveal their number. I will discuss things on text messages but I always want to hear a voice before I arrange a meeting. This is for my safety. People who have been before are not a problem, that's if they were friendly and good company. So for a few days I had been getting messages from a guy who said he could not call me as he was deaf. Now my first reaction was 'pull the other one'! But then I started to get e-mails too.

I then began to think what if this person was deaf and I was treating him so badly and not meeting his needs as I should be doing. Part of me hoped that he would find someone else or just get too tired of messaging me. But he did not, he persisted.

In the end I decided to meet by text messages only. This was a unique experience for me and I was a little concerned. In the end I decided to meet at a local hotel that I use. I could easily give this address without too much concern and if he failed to turn up it was not far to go home.

The meeting was for 9pm and it was going to be a 2 hour meeting. I arrived in the car park at the agreed time and there was a man waiting outside- He was the only man there and he looked my way and so I waved and he waved back. He was my man!

Well, in the end all my concerns were not warranted. He was deaf and he did speak in a different way but we communicated freely and it was an extremely enjoyable meet. He was everything a woman would want. He was caring, he was gentle, he was considerate, he was amorous, he was loving and he got hard in the right places. He was also excellent company and had a great sense of humour.

So what is the moral here? I think you should have rules in your life but now and again these may need to be broken. Rules are only guidelines, they are the signposts that help you make decisions. But if I had stuck by rules I would never have met this lovely man!

So I am starting to learn sign language and my first sign I will learn is 'fuck me' and then 'thank you'!

So if you do want to break some rules then get in touch.

dariax@hotmail.co.uk

0039 3281769818