The games people play!

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As I have mentioned a number of times on my blog, I have lived in the UK and Italy and have been fortunate to meet, play with and cuddle a number of very interesting people. I am not a person to judge others as I hate to be judged myself so I am very tolerant and intersted in what people like to do in bed and also out of bed!!!

One thing I have noticed that is different about requests that are made in UK and Italy is spanking. I don't have a lot of requests here but was met with frequent requests in the UK. In the main this is me doing the spanking, it seems when it is requested in Italy I am the one to get spanked.

Now spanking is a curious past time and I often wonder about is there a cultural difference here and  basically there no interest in Italy for this type of fun or is it that Italians are embarrassed to ask for certain things? I tend to think the latter!

However, I have heard that a lot of men in the UK enjoy being spanked as a result of corporal punishment they received when young. In the main they were hit by people they were close to and often loved and so there became an association. Not sure about this so if there are any students of sex out there let me know!

Spanking can be given with the hand or a flat instrument. If you look on some S&M sites you will see quite elaborate objects to use to spank, some are made of leather and some of wood. I am able to spank but I don't think I could ever be into extreme spanking, and as I don't like pain I only receive a spank if it is not too painful and does not leave a mark.

It is very interesting that only one little vowel separates 'spank' from 'spunk'!!!

I hope you all continue to have fun and to be happy and content in what you get up to. I am around if you require a little soft spanking!!!

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Cannot speak now as I am all tied up!

I wrote a few weeks ago about an adventure I had with someone who wanted to tie me up and to fill my holes with specially formulated sex objects. I was not totally comfortable with the situation. The man was wonderful and he was also very caring but I did not know him well enough.

 It is difficult on a first meet to play these sort of games. I think it must be difficult for both partners. Nonetheless, I am very happy to explore new ways of enjoying sex and do have a desire to be taken to places I have never been.

Lately I have been having some lurid dreams about bondage. They re exciting dreams where I am trussed up in a way that my captor has my body to do what he wants with.

It is both frightening and also exciting. These two emotions are good friends!

One dream I have had is where I am tied up and left in a strange place. Here I await a passer by who can either subject me to more abuse or free me. Here I am both excited and also extremely scared. And if I am to be honest I am not sure which I would prefer! And here lies the dilemma for most females. Do they want the caring man or the uncaring one? Do they want the man who takes care of them and treasures them or the man who simply uses them?

And to be truthful most women want both! And it is difficult to find this in one man. So if a woman is constantly used and treated badly she will crave a loyal,caring man. And if she is loved and treated like a princess she will often seek out the man who  will pull her hair and make her do things her life partner would never consider.

So I can be a slut but I can also be Cleopatra. I can be tied up but I can also be fanned. I can be fucked roughly but I can also be fucked lovingly.I can enjoy gentle kisses but also orgasm when being fucked and kissed hard and with the tongue swishing around in my mouth.

Humans crave new experiences and enjoy new adventures that is why we are so different from other animals. We are animals! We can bite and we can cuddle. We can fight and we can caress. We can pull hair and we can stroke hair. We can be captors and captives. We can be!

So if there is anyone wanting to explore or to be explored then get in touch.

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Being played with in a restaurant!

I think I may have mentioned one of the many things that turns me on in a previous blog. But it won't hurt bringing it up again. I am a bit of an exhibitionist and love to show off my cleavage in public places.

 I also like to flirt.

So given my love of food, I am Italian, what place to flirt and be an exhibitionist than a restaurant. Food is sexy!

My real turn on is giving my partner a show when we are eating. And if he is happy with it I am happy to give  others in the restaurant a show too. They have to be chosen well!

I would like to catch the eye of someone who is watching me and then give them a glimpse of my panties. I would be talking to my partner but also manoeuvring myself that some stranger can get a look. I will then go to the bathroom and remove my panties so that my cunt can be seen.

When the stranger is getting excited and hopefully this will be noticeable I will allow my partner to touch me up and to secretly insert his fingers into what would be a very wet vagina.

If there is somewhere that sex can take place in the restaurant area I would love to have excited the stranger so much that he would want to fuck me. No foreplay as I will be so wet. Just raw,rugged, rampant sex. Wow!

The recipe for this is a compliant partner, a very willing stranger and a restaurant with the right kind of ambiance.

If anyone would like to play this game then get in touch!

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Whipping up some fun!!!!!

As I have mentioned before in previous blogs, I am not over keen on hurting or being hurt.

 However, I do realise that there is a place for some S&M in a sex game.

 It is not my fetish but I do get some pleasure when the time is right and I am with the right person. You have the trust the person you are with and it does have to be mutually pleasurable.

One thing that I have given but have never wished to receive is the peg treatment.

For years I thought pegs were used to dry clothes on the line. But my eyes have been open to the other many uses they have.

They are a simple invention that deserves wider aclaim for the benefits they have given.

Now I have spanked and I have also been spanked. I actually do like to have my bum spanked. It is sometimes verry erotic. It is about domination and I do sometimes enjoy being dominated. But again it has to be fun and done with a great deal of understanding.

I do enjoy giving some pain to friends when they want it. However, I have noticed that there is less demand in Italy than in the UK. I am not sure why but in Italy my visitors generally want to just fuck me without displaying too many of their darkest thoughts.

I am happy to play all kinds of games. Sex is fun and it should be explorative. As long as we are all having a good time and we get the feelings we are trying to get then we can have a very pleasant journey together.

So if there is anyone wanting to come on a sexual journey and to explore things they have only had wet dreams about, then get in touch.

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Big boys don't cry! They do!

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My days as an escort bring me into contact with different people from many walks of life. I have seen and done most things people only dream about. Nonetheless, my world is not merely a sexual one. I have good ears and a sympathetic embrace. And I need these!

Some men visit me very soon after a break down of a relationship they have had. 

These men have usually been rejected and bring with them all the baggage of resentment and low self esteem. They come to me for comfort, for a friendly ear and for sex that they hope will take away some of  the pain. 

In my experience the sex part is not always a success, nonetheless having someone naked, open to a warm embrace and a passionate cuddle is often something they badly need. 

This is more of a success and they sometimes leave without having doing a lot of horizontal exercise but with a less heavy heart. It is good to release some of the pain. And many do this. Tears are not unusual and the tissues by the side of my bed are used more for their eyes than for other things!

There is nothing wrong in crying. I have never felt that tears make a man less of one. I think more of someone who can show emotion, show their feelings and to cry when they need to cry.

The other day I had a visitor who was married and had been involved with a threesome that included his wife and a younger male. The relationship had worked well for sometime before the wife desired to make the happy threesome a happier twosome. This invloved secret messages and secret meetings between the wife and the other man.

The man was distraught and totally ill at ease. He had no problem with his wife having sex with the man but the secrecy and deceit totally destroyed him. I have never heard a man sob and cry so much. The sound came from the heart and rose up through his mouth like a torrent of despair. He had no idea why he was with me and we never had sex. We just lay together as he just shook. It was comforting for him and he thanked me.

Big boys do cry and why not!

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