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Some men visit me very soon after a break down of a relationship they have had.
These men have usually been rejected and bring with them all the baggage of resentment and low self esteem. They come to me for comfort, for a friendly ear and for sex that they hope will take away some of the pain.
In my experience the sex part is not always a success, nonetheless having someone naked, open to a warm embrace and a passionate cuddle is often something they badly need.
This is more of a success and they sometimes leave without having doing a lot of horizontal exercise but with a less heavy heart. It is good to release some of the pain. And many do this. Tears are not unusual and the tissues by the side of my bed are used more for their eyes than for other things!
There is nothing wrong in crying. I have never felt that tears make a man less of one. I think more of someone who can show emotion, show their feelings and to cry when they need to cry.
The other day I had a visitor who was married and had been involved with a threesome that included his wife and a younger male. The relationship had worked well for sometime before the wife desired to make the happy threesome a happier twosome. This invloved secret messages and secret meetings between the wife and the other man.
The man was distraught and totally ill at ease. He had no problem with his wife having sex with the man but the secrecy and deceit totally destroyed him. I have never heard a man sob and cry so much. The sound came from the heart and rose up through his mouth like a torrent of despair. He had no idea why he was with me and we never had sex. We just lay together as he just shook. It was comforting for him and he thanked me.
Big boys do cry and why not!
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