Should men be lovers or studs?

I really feel sorry for men. We seem to be giving them contrary information about how we like to be fucked. The sex revolution of the 1960s nd 1970s was in part to inform men that women needed to enjoy themselves too.

Women went on about the clitoris and the G-spot and there were hundreds of books on how to improve your sex techniques.

Men were asked to be patient, to be caring, to cuddle, to massage, to caress, to kiss, to embrace, to be loving.

 What seems to have happened is now these men are finding out that women want something different. They want to be fucked. And sometimes they want a rough fuck. They want to be treated like a slut.

It must be so difficult for some men who have put a lot of time and effort into finding their female side to find that women lust after alpha males. men who just take them. They take what hole they want in what order they want.

From websites and blogs I have read there seems to be a lot of women in loving relationships who crave a big cock, a black cock, a rampant prodding cock. Men who are not this way disposed are labelled cucks, wimps, sissies and even gay.


Here in Italy you can find lots of websites devoted to helping married women find a good fucking. This is usually with the husband's or boyfriend's consent. They look for bulls. And men who like to fuck hard and think they have a good size cock advertise themselves as 'bulls'.

Well, if you ask me both is true. Sometimes I love a nice cuddle, a warm embrace, gentle kissing and a slow fuck. But sometimes I want it hard and to be dominated. This maybe due to female hormones or when we are ovulating but what ever it is we want something different at certain times of the month.

Now can one man fulfill the two roles? Well, in my opinion no. That is why women need 2 men. A husband and a lover. A lover and a bull. A caring man and an uncaring.one. Good cop bad cop.

If you are a caring lover I would love to meet you. However, if you just want to fuck me and go I am happy too.

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